7.7.11

Something in common

今日はまた恋バナについて話します。
このまえ話した女の子を覚えていますか?
実際、彼女はメールを送ってくれました。でも、こんなことって普通のことで、みんなアドレスもらったら、送るもんだと思う、ある意味。
ということは、メールを返してくれただけでは、気があるとかないとかわからないわけです。

では、どうすれば異性と良い関係を築けるか?
僕が思うに、それは共通点だとおもう。例えば、趣味とか仕事とか夢などなど。
共通点が多いほど、それだけ親しくなる為の手札がたくさんあるわけなんです。

今まで述べたことはあくまでも自分の意見です。これがすべてではないよね。

僕の場合、共通点はあったけど、彼女が19歳だと知ってびっくり。未成年。
なんか犯罪犯してる気分だわ。

ということで、次回は刑務所からブログ更新することになってしまうかも。


Today, I'm gonna talk about my love story again.
Do you remember the girl to whom I gave my email address?
In fact, she let me know her email address. However, this is not a special thing. It is the usual thing. I think that everyone would send emails in some ways if they got someone's mail address.
Therefore, even if she answered me, I don't know whether she likes me or not.

So, what do you think how people can have good relationships with the opposite sex?
In my opinion, that is the common feature such as hobbies, jobs, dreams, etc...
I believe that the more people have a lot in common with the opposite sex, the more they get ways to have good relationships.

This is my opinion, so it is not the exact thing.

In my case, I have something in common with her, but when I knew she is 19, I was so surprised. She is still in her minority.
I feel like committing crimes.

So, I might update my next blog in a prison.
Good bye~




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6 comments:

  1. Oh my goodness! She is only fucking 19!!! But sounds good for you, isn't it?

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  2. イギリスのバラエティー番組の日本語吹き替え版みたいな文章だね!

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  4. To michan
    Yes, it does. Actually, she is the same age as my little brother is. So she is so cute to me.
    どうでもいいけど、イギリスってか、ロンドンあたりはfuckingじゃなくてbloodyを使うみたいよ。

    To mamitas
    イギリスバラエティー番組ってくそつまんないイメージしかないから、つまらないってことかー?
    mamitasメール返してないから来ないのかい?

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  5. You believe that having much in common is a significant factor in developping an effective relationship, eh? While in theory and on paper, it looks good, I fear that our psyches are much more complicated than all of this. We want to see life from new perspectives and not drivel on about life the same ways we do when we are in isolation (except maybe those only looking for a partner to show off their intellect and analytical theories [in which case one would never end happily]). However, I only speak in the short term. Regarding the long-term, you may be right. But can one actually reach the latter if the path to said circumstances are a bore and just a mirror of one's self?


    On a side note: being 19 makes one a minor in Japan? That is quite unfortunate. Damn these confucianism cultures!

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  6. Yes. I believe that. But actually I don't think much about this subject like you. So, you must be good at thinking about humanity. This theme is interesting, isn't it? I gotta deepen my thought about this kind of matter.
    Thank you for reading it and responding me.
    Please carry on watching my blog.

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